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are nearly 74 million people living in the Philippines today and
the 2.4% annual increase in population is making sure that the
75 million mark will be surpassed by the year 2000. Of the
present population, 40% are concentrated within Metro Manila
while the rest are scattered throughout the archipelago, giving
the nation’s capital a population density of approximately
12,400 persons per sq. kilometer. In the provinces, the density
is only 62 persons per sq. kilometer.
Filipinos
are descendants of Malay explorers but the bloodline has been
infused with Chinese, Arab, Indian, Spanish, and American
lineages. This fusion of cultures has given rise to no less than
111 distinct cultural and linguistic groups, each with its basic
Malayo-Polynesian roots but with varying degrees of other
foreign influences.
The
warmth and hospitality of Filipinos are known throughout the
world. Guests are plied with food and drink, and often, a place
in the host’s own home. It may be generosity to a fault, but
there is nothing more pleasing to Filipinos than knowing that
their guest is never wanting for anything.
Filipinos
have a strong sense of family. Three generations often come
together. Aunts and uncles (titas> and titos) help raise and
discipline the children as secondary parents. In turn, cousins
grow up as informal siblings. The grandparents and elderly
members of the family are the family’s source of history and
stories and are taken care of until their last days. Visitors
and guests to family gatherings would do well to pay their
respects to the elderly clan members. Pagmamano, taking the
elder person’s right hand and bringing it to your forehead, is
a great sign of respect. Similarly, calling them lolo
(grandfather) and lola (grandmother) and adding the honorific po
to your sentences denotes your recognition of their age and rank
in the clan structure (such as "How are you po?").
Filipinos
are expressive talkers, incorporating eyes, mouth, and hands in
their speech. In this way, depth and nuance are added to
something that cannot be said or put into words. Courteous
language and gentle demeanor are the norm; exaggerated movements
and boisterous speech are frowned upon and considered especially
by the elder generation as uncouth (walang modo). Direct eye
contact is always avoided since it is an aggressive stance and
regarded as offensive. Pointed or direct remarks are avoided,
and sensitive topics are best left untouched. Westerners might
find it rather tiresome and long-winded. Nevertheless, it goes a
long way when developing relationships with Filipinos.
The
importance of "keeping one’s face", meant as pride
and self-esteem, is very important to Filipinos. Sensitive and
delicate topics are often avoided to prevent misunderstandings,
criticisms, or fights. "Losing face" is the worst
thing that a Filipino can think of happening to him. Thus, the
sense of hiya or being sensitive to the pride and self-esteem of
others is a quality learned early on. Sociologists have come up
with a term defining this quality — smooth interpersonal
relationships or pakikisama. By trying to "get along,"
Filipinos adopt a group mindset, thinking and doing what
everyone in the group decides. This is not indecision or
passivity, but Filipinos do not care to be the odd one out.
Filipinos
dislike upsetting anyone and that’s why they make it a point
never to ruffle any feathers, whether directly or indirectly. If
forced to give a negative answer, the Filipino will say
something without explicitly saying "no." Pakiramdaman
or the sensitivity afforded by one to another comes in. Simply,
this is feeling each other out or, more concretely, sensing what
is not said. This aids in completing the gaps or the omissions
in the conversation because every Filipino knows that much of
what is not said in any conversation is as weighty as words that
are spoken.
Another
Filipino trait is utang na loob or recognizing a personal
indebtedness owed to the one who has bestowed favors. It’s
quite simple: favors long past are never forgotten and are
always remembered to be reciprocated with similar or greater
kindness. Something like a gracious quid pro quo, but it is not
a forced reciprocation. Because of hiya and smooth interpersonal
relationships, returning the favor is almost an unspoken,
unasked-for given.
Resilient
and optimistic in the face of adversity, Filipinos are
spontaneous and convivial in their celebration of life, best
exemplified in festivals and fiestas.
The
arrival and 333-year rule of the Spaniards left its indelible
mark on the islands and its people: the Catholic faith. About
80% of all Filipinos are Catholic making the Philippines the
only predominantly Catholic country in Asia.
With
the arrival of Shariff Kabunsunuan to Mindanao in the early 14th
century came the introduction of Islam to the country. To date,
Mindanao is the center of the Islamic faith in the country with
followers numbering to over three million. The greatest
concentration of Muslims is in the provinces of Cotabato,
Zamboanga del Norte, Lanao, and the Sulu Archipelago.
At
the turn of the century, two independent Filipino religions were
established — the Iglesia ni Kristo or Church of Christ, and
the Philippine Independent Church, more commonly known as
Aglipayan after its founder, Gregorio Aglipay. These two make up
the local independent religions.
A
vast majority of tribes inhabit the mountains of Northern Luzon
and Mindanao, and a small number in the outlying islands of
Palawan and Mindoro. These indigenous tribes have withstood
waves of Spanish and American missionaries and still adhere to
their nature-based, animistic beliefs.
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